領導方式跟管教孩子到底有什麼相關性? 今天透過simon sinek最近的訪談, 想跟大家分享parenting在管理大人以及團體的重要性還有作為領導者應該要注意的溝通陷阱。

Why parenting skills and leadership skills are the same thing?

• the same principles apply to all human beings.

Why this matter?

• We were all kids once and have unhealed wounds

• We all need to find a way to heal the wounds through human interactions

• EVERYTHING UNHEALED BY YOUR CHILDHOOD GETS TRIGGERED BY YOUR KIDS

• Managers are the parents of adult who never got the proper skills from their childhood

  You can either choose

  • criticism and judgment

  OR

  • boundaries and skill building

Children’s behaviors vs Adults behaviors

• kids (people) are born good inside
• kids are born with all the feelings and no skills
• parents’ job is to provide that skills sets to allow them for success
• if you level up the skill, that allows them to manage their emotion
• bad behaviors are manifested by lack of skills

What about adults?

• bad behaviors don’t actually go away as we become adults
• we bring them with us

Parents and leaders in uncertainties

• In uncertainties, they are aware of tensions.